'Why You Don't Have To Have Sex To Be Sexy'

By Guy Sebastian from the March issue of Dolly

"I've sort of made the decision not to have sex before I get married, and it's hard, let me tell you. It's just something I choose and I don't think people who have had sex are any worse than me. I just feel that it really does make you stronger."

"You know what's really sexy to me? A girl who everyone loves. Everywhere you go, people saying 'She's so nice. She's such a great girl.' That's really sexy. I think long hair is sexy too. Even though some girls look amazing with short hair, I prefer long. And I love girls with pretty eyes."   

"What I don't think is sexy is girls who always wear those mini-skirts and that whole look. I find it really unattractive. I like a girl who doesn't need to show off - that's sexy to me because they reserve something for you when the time is right."   

"Since Australian Idol I've had a lot of screaming after me, but I don't know if I'm getting more attention from girls wanting to go out with me, I think that's because they like my music. It doesn't really mean they want to go out with me. I'm big relationships guy." 

"I like a girl who doesn't feel like she has to be like everyone else, who has to have this and that to be a cool girl. I like an honest girl, I like girls who are funny, who are genuine and faithful - that's a big deal. I've had my fair share of that happening. I like a girl who doesn't flirt; I hate it when girls flirt with other guys in front of you. I like a girl who isn't ambitious but is courageous, because I think ambition can get people into a lot of trouble. Not just courageous, but also a dreamer who aspires to big things, not someone who does things that are orchestrated."   

"I like a girl who sings. My ex-girlfriend sung and I really liked that. That doesn't mean I'll only go out with singers - I'm talking about someone who sings in the shower. That's probably cuter, if they can't sing but sings anyway."   

"I don't understand anything about girls, really. I really don't. I don't understand hoe everyone has to fit around their moods and sometimes they're the most affectionate person in the world and say things like 'You're the best.' And then every now and then, actually every month it seems, you're this mean inconsiderate fool of a man who can't do anything right."  

"I hate cold girls who don't tell you they love you. There's a song on my album called 3 Words, which is about saying 'I love you' without saying it, and the power of those words, which I really related to. I don't you can say 'I love you' enough, because it's healthy. 'How are you doing? I love you'. 'How was your day? I love you'."

"I don't think that making moves is sexy. I really like a friendship that turns into something more because it's never a specific move, it was just something that happened. I love those special moments when you go from being friends to something more. That's very cool."

 

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